Exactly as you are.
Wherever you’re at.
Whatever your interest.
Coaching & counselling offerings:
Embodiment Coaching
You know your body better than anyone. Your curiosity is our guide. Deeper learning can be supported through somatic (body-centred) experiences and/or hands-on processes - when you are ready. We work at your pace, under your instruction, framed by educational intentions. Depending on your interests, this could be a once-off, however repeated practice over time will improve real-life applications.
Relationship Counselling
Partners interested in their relationship and/or erotic health can be supported in a no-judgement space. How to communicate needs and interests, overcoming fears and anxieties, learning about pleasure pathways and changed desire can all be explored. We work using a combination of talk therapy and embodiment practices and there are home-play exercises to keep developing your new skills together in your own time.
Kink Coaching
Feeling a bit shy about expressing adventurous ideas in the bedroom? Intimidated about hiring a professional? Overwhelmed by public workshops? Getting kinky requires more than wielding a few toys! Charlie’s extensive kink experience supports one-on-one or couples to learn about kink using the RACK approach (Risk Aware Conscious Kink). Learn about consent, negotiation and specific skills in the consult rooms or a private dungeon if appropriate.
Pricing and details
Embodiment Coaching
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This is a practical session that may or may not include games, theory, hands on touch, nudity or genital touch depending on your needs. Suitable for individuals or couples.
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90 mins $300
3 x 90 mins $850
6 x 90 mins $1650
10 x 90 mins $2700
Relationship Counselling
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This is principally a talk based process that leans into embodiment practices and offers tools that you can use in daily life. You may come solo or as a partnership. Follow up resources are also offered.
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90 mins $300
60 mins online $160
3 x 90 mins $850
6 x 90 mins $1650
10 x 90 mins $2700
Kink Coaching
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Charlie will devise a workshop plan tailored to your kink interests using a combination of theory and practice. Suitable for individuals and couples. This is an educational/non-sexual experience.
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90 mins $300
3 x 90 mins $850
6 x 90 mins $1650
10 x 90 mins $2700
ROB
“She has the uncanny ability to adapt on the run as a session unfolds and all the while without judgement but with respect, support and a strong connection while sometimes judiciously employing the art of the nudge to get me to go that little bit further into the unknown.
It has been hard work for me but attempting something out of the ordinary requires something extraordinary by way of support, and that is what Charlie provides.
Your questions answered…
Is sex coaching a hands-on experience?
Sometimes. All sessions are driven by your interests; I have a suite of exercises and tools to get you more embodied, more aware of what you want and how to communicate, how to explore some of the issues you might be experiencing. Typically we will discuss what you’re interested in ahead of the session. When you arrive, we will check in to ensure we are clear about what we’re going to be doing and that it matches how you are feeling in the moment. I will guide you into some embodiment exercises, such as breathing together and body scans. We will do the agreed explorations and be fully responsive to what comes up, moment by moment. We will debrief and set homeplay for ongoing learning (change takes place with repeated practice over time!). These sessions are always tailored to your needs and interests.
How long is a session? How long will it take to notice results after beginning sexology sessions?
All sessions are driven by your interests; I have a suite of exercises and tools to get you more embodied, more aware of what you want and how to communicate, how to explore some of the issues you might be experiencing. Typically we will discuss what you’re interested in ahead of the session. When you arrive, we will check in to ensure we are clear about what we’re going to be doing and that it matches how you are feeling in the moment. I will guide you into some embodiment exercises, such as breathing together and body scans. We will do the agreed explorations and be fully responsive to what comes up, moment by moment. We will debrief and set homeplay for ongoing learning (change takes place with repeated practice over time!). These sessions are always tailored to your needs and interests.
Why should I choose to work with you?
Because I feel like the right fit for you. A therapeutic relationship is deeply intimate and personal - particularly when exploring the erotic realm. Rapport with your therapist is the most important ingredient in achieving the results you hope for. Research demonstrates ‘good rapport’ counts for more successful therapeutic outcomes than the level of training or specific modality practised by your therapist. Therefore, I suggest you get in touch to find out if you feel comfortable with me.
On a practical level, I believe I am a highly professional sensate and empath. I listen attentively and respond creatively to your unique needs. I am honest and provocative whilst being calm, gentle and thoughtful. I have survived my own challenges (and no doubt will continue to do so) which give me great insight and sensitivity. I now thrive on supporting others in their own erotic journey. I want you to have the best erotic life possible.
I’m really anxious. What can I do?
Breathe. Your experience is very normal and to be expected. The best thing you can do is take the risk and communicate clearly what you want. Then, keep breathing – the most helpful way to manage nerves is to breathe; long, slow, deep breaths. Breath regulates the nervous system. It also moderates arousal. Breathing slowly is the best thing you can ever learn to do for yourself.
Do I have to be naked? Are you naked?
No. All sessions are led by you and what best supports your learning. We will only ever do things you fully consent to and will work at your pace. Most sessions can be done clothed, partially clothed, under a sheet or naked. One-way touch means I touch you (when you want me to) but you don't touch me - which is in line with the Code of Conduct requirements for Certified Sexological Bodyworkers. I am fully clothed and you are in a state of dress/undress that is comfortable for you.
Questions still lingering?
Please send me an email if you’d like to know more. I'm not great at answering my phone unless we have booked a time to chat - which I'm very happy to arrange either via email or text message. I esteem to reply within 24 hours, if not sooner, unless I’m out of range (which happens occasionally). Your enquiry will always be honoured by a response.
JEREMY